honestly

it's okay to offer a hand. it's an ethical obligation to help those in need.

BUT is it okay to take that for granted? at least express a LITTLE gratitude?


if your attitude to those who helped you shows your appreciation, then you'll not only pay the most basic respect, but also make others feel willing to help you again.

don't even think that getting someone's assistance is their obligation just because you guys are close. because this is the very moment when they'll start distancing from you, and you'll know where you stand.