My mind is a bit clogged after listening to a thoughtful dinner conversation. To say the truth, I am too much of a coward. If I have my own perspective and position, I should step up and advocate them, instead of acting like a passive listener all the time. Too much emotional response running through my head at the same time and I try to anticipate what kind of feedback I will get- which often deters me from saying the truth. Then I'll always have to resort to writing as a means to reorganize my thoughts.

The topics discussed weren't the most important thing, but the extent to which others are willing to give you time to back up your statement. Too often, we neglect others' opinions because we just spit out our views like a reflex. It's not easy for someone to go against the flow, especially for an introvert. Nobody said you have to buy into their argument- but do you have the capacity to listen and appreciate someone's boldness to challenge you, before making a judgment call and proudly proclaiming that you are a liberal and respectful individual?